tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-168458041332941999.post6197560315490582869..comments2023-10-17T06:59:53.759-04:00Comments on No Cookies For Me: Fetishization of Asian Women (link round-up)Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-168458041332941999.post-27496241765832707712007-11-15T23:57:00.000-05:002007-11-15T23:57:00.000-05:00I've been snarky too long and people can't disting...I've been snarky too long and people can't distinguish when I'm not! There are consensual fetishes like feathers and redheads and unhealthy fetishes like submissive Asians and spicy Latinas.donna darkohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17419527183363046513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-168458041332941999.post-58847630429863089412007-11-15T23:44:00.000-05:002007-11-15T23:44:00.000-05:00EG:I don't think that's true. I've had people tal...EG:<BR/><BR/>I don't think that's true. I've had people talk about girls they like prefaced with "I totally have an Asian fetish," and then there are gobs and gobs of websites. It's tossed out there like a fetish, but I think in some mostly-enlightened places, talking about things as a 'fetish' is relatively normal and fun, and distinguishes you from saying you have racialized sexuality. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-168458041332941999.post-63383959222478651472007-11-15T23:07:00.000-05:002007-11-15T23:07:00.000-05:00Well, a big part of it is consent and recognition,...Well, a big part of it is consent and recognition, right? Like, if you have a leather fetish, you know it's a fetish--you don't confuse it with actually being an accurate representation of an entire gender and race, and you engage in it with other people who want it. You meet someone, and at a strategic point in the relationship, you say, "Hey, how about black leather?" and the other person Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-168458041332941999.post-44497268962743414842007-11-15T22:51:00.000-05:002007-11-15T22:51:00.000-05:00Right. There are regular sexual fetishes and unhea...Right. There are regular sexual fetishes and unhealthy sexual fetishes.donna darkohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17419527183363046513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-168458041332941999.post-57571695974964614032007-11-15T22:32:00.000-05:002007-11-15T22:32:00.000-05:00In other words: there are some people who might fi...<I>In other words: there are some people who might find some of the physical traits common in women of Asian ancestry attractive, while someone else might find the stereotype of Asian women as submissive and docile attractive, even though both might say that they're attracted to Asian women.</I><BR/><BR/>Yeah, with donna here -- I don't think it's fetishizing to find people who share physical baby221https://www.blogger.com/profile/10728908487350684688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-168458041332941999.post-64733310474864416882007-11-15T14:59:00.000-05:002007-11-15T14:59:00.000-05:00Asian fetish roundup. LOL.That's actually not far ...<B>Asian fetish roundup. LOL.</B><BR/><BR/>That's actually not far off of the original title. <BR/><BR/>Then I thought... "Ooooh, ooooh, wait. <I>That's</I> not going to be a good idea. <I>That's</I> going to get me some <I>really</I> unpleasent google hits. No thank you."Rex Libris https://www.blogger.com/profile/13666188771524753584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-168458041332941999.post-66207298660544753212007-11-15T14:48:00.000-05:002007-11-15T14:48:00.000-05:00Asian fetish roundup. LOL.Asian fetish roundup. LOL.donna darkohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17419527183363046513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-168458041332941999.post-70450018655085719392007-11-15T14:39:00.000-05:002007-11-15T14:39:00.000-05:00If it's a physical attraction to dark hair and eye...If it's a physical attraction to dark hair and eyes, it's fine.<BR/><BR/>But a physical attraction to docility and submissiveness is a fetish.donna darkohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17419527183363046513noreply@blogger.com